My Wife Was Dying, and We Didn’t Tell Our Children Feb 17, 2019 15:29:52 GMT Quote Select PostDeselect PostLink to PostMemberGive GiftBack to Top Post by Leon on Feb 17, 2019 15:29:52 GMT Pros and cons with this. One con would be regret on the kid's part and you will be the focus of that regre. "If you would have told us, we would have been better prepared, said good bye, etc...www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/02/my-wife-and-i-didnt-tell-our-children-about-her-cancer/582709/